I have a 10YO who is very mature for his age and a 6YO who is a little brother. Twice in the last week, I had to explain to the older boy how to give his younger brother constructive feedback. Both conversations boiled down to me stating that of course many things could be improved, but we should look for the one thing which would make the most difference. I explained to my oldest son how this avoids an overwhelming feeling and gives the most important feedback the emphasis.
Both times I thought how I need reminding of that too.
How many times have I over-efficiently listed all the things wrong instead of honing in on the one, most important, thing to work on to make the biggest difference?
Have I over-efficiently listed all things wrong instead of honing in on one, important, thing to…
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